Saturday, December 27, 2008

2008 Is Almost Over!

November and December have flown by for me. Highlights were:

  • Erin's visit for two weeks at Thanksgiving time.
  • Our visit to Iowa the first part of December.
  • All the Christmas activities and traditions, including dinner at the Spaghetti Factory and the concert at the Honolulu Tabernacle.
In the midst of that is the BYU-Hawaii graduation--this year with President Eyring as our commencement speaker. Our annual attendance at the Honolulu Tabernacle for the symphony and Honolulu Stake Christmas concert was a highlight on Sunday, December 21, and a great way to celebrate our 34th anniversary.

To read more about these highlights, Dianna's done a great job of sharing our experiences. I would add that it was fun to get better acquainted with Avery since we last saw him in Australia at a few days old in August (and Erin was here to help us decorate for Christmas);


Thanksgiving dinner with Erin, John, Lindsey, and all four grandsons;


visiting with the Hauschildt's in Cedar Rapids (dinner and singing carols); seeing my mom's new apartment at Mallard Point in Cedar Falls, Iowa (seems like a four-star hotel); and spending time with Betty (Matt, Tina) is always a highlight. Unfortunately, we experienced some winter weather while we were in Iowa (school closings, bad roads) so we didn't get to see Carol and other family members but we're planning for our return for next summer.

We had our traditional Christmas eve dinner with the Wagner family, but it was the first time we've had a Christmas eve dinner with none of the girls here--we also enjoyed having Lisa's mom and friend, Beau, William Mensah, and Elder and Sister Hogge--the dinner was delicious and we prepared the table and the home for the event--we had a wonderful chef (with an excellent helper). Here are some pictures:

December also brought a major flood to Laie and across Hawaii and we also had a 19-hour blackout on our island today so we've had some interesting challenges as well. We're looking forward to 2009 and Aaron and Jenny's new little girl and some time to visit family and friends next summer.

Best wishes for a great 2009!

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Erin's Tag

8 FAVORITE TV SHOWS
1. ER
2. Designed to Sell (we want Lisa Laporta to design our house to sell then we'd keep it)
3. From the Top (also listen to it on the radio on Saturdays)
4. Sell This House (mom and I are HGTV junkies)
5. Rick Steve's Europe Through the Back Door (and travel junkies)
6. Today Show and most news programs
7. Jeopardy
8. Duke basketball games (when they are televised) and most college basketball

8 FAVORITE RESTAURANTS
1. Olive Garden
2. PF Changs
3. Phuket Thai
4. Benihana or Tanaka of Tokyo
5. Lei Lei's at Turtle Bay (or Ola's)
6. Cheesecake Factory
7. Cholo's
8. Long John Silver's/A&W in Mililani (love the root beer)

8 Things that happened yesterday
1. Attended several hours of the "Vision Hawaii" meetings
2. Read and responded to dozens of emails
3. Assisted Mike Bright and Josh/Bryan Hartman with Josh's campus visit (visiting from Colorado)
4. Had lunch with Mike and his guests
5. Answered a call from Megan on my cell phone--"How do you get to 500 West? Which direction is it?"
6. Played the piano
7. Picked up dinner on the way home
8. Relaxed at home in the evening with Dianna

8 Things I'm looking forward to
1. Erin's visit in a few weeks
2. Christmas traditions--setting up our new tree after Thanksgiving
3. Visiting Jenny and Aaron and ? in Pennsylvania
4. Achieving our goals in the University Relations area--following up on our great retreat from Thursday
5. Hearing from and writing family and friends (email, Facebook, blogs)
6. Teaching piano to Trevor, Devin, Kyle . . . .
7. Travels with Dianna (New England in the fall, Disneyworld during some Christmas--very festive, Europe, Asia and . . .)
8. Serving a mission with Dianna

8 Things on my wish list
1. My own Steinway--some day
2. Dozens of grandchildren
3. Travel to see #2
4. A quick remodel of the temple (18 months is a looooong time); excursions to Kona
5. Lots of messages from family and friends
6. Serve a mission
7. Upgraded kitchen counter (same as Dianna)
8. Complete some home projects such as finished bedroom [painted walls, window coverings, rugs, etc.]

I'll add one other list like Dianna added to her list:
8 Things I'm grateful for
1. A wonderful eternal companion
2. A close family and regular contact--an eternal family
3. The gospel and membership in the LDS Church
4. Great friends; long-term association with several students who have also become such close friends
5. Fun employment opportunities--I've always looked forward to EVERY day
6. Opportunities for an education and children who have taken advantage of their opportunities
7. Opportunities to travel and see many places in the world
8. A great country in which to live and places to live including Iowa, Virginia, Utah, and Hawaii where we have great memories through the years!

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Use Sunscreen!

So yesterday I had a procedure to remove signs of basal cell carcinoma on the bridge of my nose. I noticed signs a few months ago, had it checked out and then scheduled this procedure for yesterday. The technology that is used is called Mohs surgery. ( http://www.mohssurgery.ca/ ) After two procedures the doctor (Dr. Boyle) finished by stitching the wound so he says there shouldn't even be a scar. We arrived at the doctor's office around 7:30 a.m. and left at 2, stopping on the way home for some pain pills, which were appreciated after the local anesthesia wore off!

I decided it would be much easier and less painful to wear sunscreen--and I'll probably need to continue checking for similar signs in the future--when I used to enjoy the sun (in my youth and young adulthood) there was no discussion about the cancer-causing effects of the sun. Since that has become common knowledge, we try to be more careful.

I can take the bandages off tomorrow and have the stitches removed on Monday--hopefully everything will be back to normal soon as we're also planning for our stake conference for the 19th. Mahalo for the long-distance calls to check on my status!


Utah Visit - Part II

Last Monday, just after arriving home from Utah, I was asked by President Wheelwright to go to a meeting in SLC the following Thursday, leaving Wednesday night. Our travel office was able to find a seat for me AND we used one of Dianna's companion certificates so we both flew out on Wednesday night (9:30 p.m. flight) and arrived in SLC on Thursday morning at 7:30. The meeting started at 8, so we picked up the rental car and I arrived around 8:15--President Wheelright and Max Checketts (and wives) were on the same flight and President and Max attended the same meeting -- "Envision Hawaii" -- with several other consultants and representatives from PCC and HRI to consider the future of Laie and the entities here. Brian Carrington from PRI chairs the committee. The meeting was held at (interestingly) the LDS Business College, where Megan is enrolled--but we decided to keep our travel plans a secret and surprise her! She tried calling us at home on Thursday morning and then called Dianna's cell phone and WAS surprised to learn that we were in town and that I was, in fact, in the same building as she was calling from. It was fun to check in with her, even for a few minutes. (Dinner on Thursday night at Olive Garden, next to our hotel).

We started our day on Friday morning by attending a temple session in the SLC temple--Dianna's first time to attend a "live" session, and we were asked to serve as the witness couple. That was certainly an unexpected highlight of our visit!

We had a follow up meeting on Friday morning (Dianna enjoyed some time at the Family History Library while I was in meetings). After the meeting, Dianna and I enjoyed a "leaf ride" through the canyons to enjoy the scenery and fall colors, followed by dinner at Benihanas with Janice (Morgan).

Since this was General Conference weekend, our focus on Saturday and Sunday was listening to the sessions; even though our hotel was only a few blocks from the Conference Center, we watched TV in our hotel room since I had given Megan our tickets to attend the sessions in the conference center.

I attended the priesthood meeting with Dan (Litchford) in Ogden. It was great to touch bases with these two friends whom we met at VPI while both of us were enrolled in our doctoral program. Their influence and example in introducing us to the LDS Church were some of the most significant events in our lives.

After the Sunday morning session, we finished packing, headed to the airport, and got home Sunday evening. We enjoyed this brief escape and the time to see friends, family--traveling together instead of making separate trips as we often do was also a highlight--time to relax and visit after such a busy year!

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Utah Visit--September 17-21

It's actually good to be back in Utah--the air is cooler (feels like fall) and the leaves are turning, an opportunity to spend time with Megan and see how she's doing. I arrived on Wednesday morning, September 17 (flew the 6-hour non-stop). After getting settled at the hotel, Megan called after her class so we could get together for lunch with her and her friend Josh, a restaurant in Sandy. After lunch and dropping her back at her room, I parked downtown and enjoyed walking around, checking out the distribution center, getting tickets for the Saturday night performance, and surveying all the changes they are making downtown. Megan had an activity that evening so I worked in my room--emails!

On the way to Provo on Thursday morning, I couldn't help but stop at Bert Murdock (one of my favorite piano music stores--now I have some new music to add to my collection including some new Christmas books--after all, it IS September! Time to get started.) My primary reason for being here was to attend bi-annual meetings to coordinate the various performance tours that the each church school, the institutes, etc., have. I learned a lot about the process, met several individuals who will be helpful--there were four of us representing BYUH--myself, Cooper Johnson, Michael Belnap, and Chad Schumacher. That evening the meeting participants had tickets for World of Dance which was very professional and impressive--several of dance teams that had been on tour did some of their numbers. I couldn't help but think of how much Dianna and I enjoyed watching Lindsey and Erin when they were in the folk dance classes while they were attending BYU. I could imagine them out on the stage.

On Saturday after the meetings (they finished at noon), it was great to reconnect with Bill Holzendorf, who was in one of my first accounting classes that I taught when I started teaching at BYUH in 1984! (I also learned when he was in my class that he had served a mission in Iowa, including visits to Waverly!) Bill and I have kept in touch through the years; he's done well in his life, has always looked out for BYUH graduates when I've recommended he consider hiring one of them, and has great people sense, one of the reasons he's done so well. We talked about a possible house exchange at Christmas if we decide to travel to Utah in December--no definite plans yet--and looking like it may be too expensive that time of year.

That evening I checked the malls for a while and didn't buy anything except some Halloween candy at Wal-Mart that Dianna requested--had hoped to connect with Al Doan that afternoon, but he may have had other plans. (Update: Al called on Sunday and was recouping from a triathalon he participated in, held in St. George--you deserved the time--see you NEXT time--enjoy Boston for me! New England in the fall--how lucky!)

Saturday was a full day--it started out early when I attended a temple session in the Provo temple--such a huge temple compared to Laie (am eager to bring Dianna to a session here). Then had breakfast with David King, catching up on his activities, showed me one of his homes--he's ready to begin working on his Ph.D. at the U of Utah now and doing so well in many areas, spiritually, physically, academically--and enjoying life.

THEN--Steve Gibson had a ticket for me for the BYU vs. Wyoming football game in his loge--so had lunch (nice buffet), watched the game, visited (also with Ned Hill and Sister Hill who were in the loge)--BYU won 44-0. Last week they beat UCLA 59-0 so they have scored over 100 points without any points from the other teams--I think they also have the longest winning streak in the country. Steve is a loyal friend--I began working with him when I was the dean and he was initiating a training program for returned missionaries in Philippines. This has become a passion that has affected hundreds of individuals there--and he spent last year at BYUH as an entrepreneur in residence.

I left after the third quarter as Megan and I had originally planned on dinner and a concert--but her plans changed (new friends to associate with, and a star gazing activity)--so I went to the concert (skipped dinner). The pops concert was truly incredible--one of the best I have attended in years (I kept wishing Dianna--and Megan--could be there--the whole family would have loved it!) It was definitely Broadway quality but FREE, sponsored by the Tanner family. They featured a director from the Cincinnati Pops Orchestra and two amazing professional singers--Denyce Graves and Brian Stokes Mitchell, along with the Utah Symphony and the Mormon Tabernacle Choir!! They must have had 5-6 standing ovations throughout the concert; the theme was "An American Songbook," so they did songs by Cohan, Rogers/Hammerstein (Sound of Music), John Williams (the "Call of the Champions" he wrote for the choir and symphony for the 2002 Olympics), songs from the musical Ragtime, the Impossible Dream from Man of LaMancha (Brian just finished playing Don Quixote on Broadway), several patriotic numbers; an audience favorite was "New Words" about a father teaching his children new words ("moon," "star," and then "love")--I hoped they taped it--they have these concerts every 2-3 years so what a blessing to be here when it was held--can you tell I enjoyed it--lots of "chicken skin" several times throughout the night. No one wanted to leave at the end. These are the kinds of musical experiences Dianna and I love.

So I'm flying out tomorrow (Sunday)--meeting the area president from the Philippines early Monday morning at the airport so a busy week in store--this visit has been a brief reprieve from the day-to-day in Hawaii--have tried to keep up with daily emails and other urgent tasks--sometimes until1 or 2 a.m. as I'm still Hawaii time! No meetings scheduled in Utah for a while but maybe Reno in November and I hope to get to Iowa, too--we'll see. Aloha.

Friday, September 5, 2008

July and August

So the summer went by quickly--from the time I visited Iowa until now. But I think I'll keep this brief since Dianna and the girls have done a great job of summarizing our activities.

Dianna and I kept busy working on the house this summer--painting the stucco where the ocean breezes had shown its affects and repainting the railing on our lanai off the bedroom. We thought it helped make the house look like new again.

Preparing for our trip to Australia also occupied our time. Megan stayed in Hawaii and Aunty Betty and friends stayed at our home while we were gone. We appreciated knowing all was well back home, Megan enjoyed having Aunty here and spending more time with cousin Alana, too.

Highlights included:

  • Spending a few days and touring Sydney, located along a harbor. We took the hop on/hop off tour that toured the whole city and then returned to some of our favorite spots. Dianna selected a great hotel in the midst of the best spots, within walking distance of the Opera House and the Harbor Bridge. Even though it was winter time and the wet weather added additional chill, we were out and about a lot of the time. We also took the tour of the Opera House and then attended the musical, Billy Elliot, which was held at an older Sydney theater. The sidewalks along the harbor were also impressive.
  • We boarded a bus for our trip to Canberra to await the birth of baby "Avery William." He was due on July 27 but arrived on August 7 (1 a.m.--but it was still a day earlier or August 6 in the U.S) so we enjoyed our time with Erin and Will as they "patiently" awaited the birth. Erin did great in the birthing process and is such a great mom--they love their little boy--and a highlight was being able to participate in his blessing (in the hospital room) before I left the next day on the 8th. Saying goodbye is always hard but Erin and Avery will be here for Thanksgiving!
  • Erin was growing increasing more impatient about his birth; the day the contractions started I had a call from Jenny to tell me that my dad had passed away. He had been showing more signs of weakness, but then showing improvements. So even though we knew his death was imminent, hearing the words that he passed away were still a shock. I'm hopeful that his spirit and little Avery's spirit crossed paths--perhaps Dad told Avery it was ok to come and that he was joining a great family and would be greatly loved and nurtured, in a gospel environment. I know my dad was happy to be reunited with his mom and dad, son Robert, sister Dorothy, brother Donald, and other family members. Now we can also complete his temple work in a few months as well. Erin and Avery:
  • While I left on the 8th, Dianna stayed a few more days to help Erin get settled at home. It was great to spend some time with Betty before she returned to Iowa.
  • Dianna got home a few days later and we began the process of helping Megan prepare for her transition to move to Utah and begin her college studies.
  • I had beginning-of-the-year meetings and retreats so was quickly involved in school activities after being gone for nearly two weeks. A major project is preparing our action plan that implements the Design Team recommendations. This looks like a busy year now that I also oversee the University Relations area . . .
  • But that will be another blog--
Aloha for now.

Monday, September 1, 2008

Procrastinating

I have lots of weeks to catch up but think I'll do something easier and procrastinate my catch up (read Dianna's):

1 rule: use one word that comes to mind to answer the question.
1. Where is your cell phone? drawer
2. Your significant other? forever
3. Your hair? gray (unfortunately)
4. Your mother? transitioning
5. Your father? reunited
6. Your favorite thing? family
7. Your dream last night? unremembered
8. Your favorite drink? A&W
9. Your dream/goal? celestialized-family
10. The room you're in? living
11. Friends? students
12. Your fear? needles (still)
13. Where do you want to be in 6 years? mission (or travel somewhere)
14. Where were you last night? home (and church)
15. What you're not? unbusy
16. Muffins? warm (fresh out of the oven, preferred)
17. One of your wish list items? Steinway
18. Where you grew up? Iowa
20. What are you wearing? red (it's a patriotic holiday)
21. Your TV? HGTV
22. Your pets? allergies
23. Your computer? Dell
24. Your life? Packed
25. Your mood? Even
26. Missing someone? Family (grateful for blogs, chats, Skype)
27. Your car? Camry
28. Something you're not wearing? Shoes (Hawaii!)
29. Favorite Store? Music (more piano music!)
30. Your summer? Traveling
31. Like someone? Dianna (and love)
32. Your favorite color? Ocean
33. Last time you laughed? Today
34. Last time you cried? Goodbyes (saying goodbye to family--see #26--and final farewell to dad)